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Why chasing pussy can kill your dreams & your masculinity

Maximus Decimus Meridius | June 18, 2018 | 19 minute read

Is this Maximus' final word on pussy chasers vs Man, capital M? Perhaps. Last week's post - Alpha Male Vs Man Capital M - tackled this issue from a mindset perspective; the obsession of Red Pill men focusing their entire mind around becoming an alpha male. This post looks at the alpha male/player obsession from another angle - that of pussy, of biology and the feminine imperative.

For those young men on the masculine path - Man, capital M - I suspect you are beginning to realize what I have known my entire life. Placing your focus on women, on chasing pussy, is taking you farther and farther away from becoming the Man you are meant to be.

You think Maxim is just a magazine catering to a young male demographic? No chance at all that it could be what the elite want young men to focus on to the detriment of their masculine development into a Man, capital M. But let's forget about globalist conspiracy for just a moment. Who else might want men obsessed with pussy?

Of course woman wants more men obsessed with gaining access to her prize. Pussy... is a woman's ultimate tool of control over a man.

Matt Louv's comical inquiry about masculinity illustrates an example of how to explode your worldview about just what makes a truly masculine mind.

If you have to chase pussy... it means pussy is running away from you.

If you have to blast through last minute resistance... why is she resisting?

Yes, LMR is real, but think about it from a female's perspective, her biology.

The standard definition of LMR is this:

A woman puts up last minute resistance (LMR) because she, in her mind, does not want to feel like, or think that you will judge her to be, a slut.

Thus, she is using her rational hamster to justify having sex with you by throwing out tests that you must pass by making her feel secure - i.e that you don't see her as a slut, that sex is ok, and that you will still respect her once you have plowed her eyeballs into the back of her head.

That's one way of looking at and interpreting LMR. Another way is actually far far simpler and in keeping with Occams' razor.

LMR is a female's subconscious resistance to having sex with an inferior mate (i.e. genes).

In layman's terms, she doesn't want your swimmers! Even if you blast through LMR, her DNA is screaming "WTF are you doing chicka?"

She knows she should be holding out for a more superior man, a better man, but her sexual nature is taking over her rational mind. This is, of course, the very heart and soul of all PUA techniques - to heighten the sexual tension and atmosphere in order to pull the trigger.

Now ask yourself the following: Would this woman have LMR if you were truly the 'alpha' stud male you think you are?

Of course not.

She would fuck your brains out.

Before you cry bullshit, all you have to do to prove this to yourself is ask the following question:

Is there a woman alive on this planet who would give Brad Pitt LMR if he wanted to escalate with her?

I rest my case. This is why Red Pill men are obsessed with learning how to ape/imitate 'alpha'. It works, but becoming alpha does not make you a man, just a male desired by females. There is a difference, or at least this author believes there is one.

Brad Pitt may slowly be aging out of the "hottie" category into "old man, but still sexy" and not as current as whoever the present day male Hollywood heartthrob is, but the point being made I think is clear. If you are "that guy", she won't hesitate to take your D. Which means, you probably did not have to chase her down. In fact, she was most likely strategically stalking you as I had one woman hint at to me in the past.

This is what Matt Louv's quote brilliantly illustrates - a mindset of scarcity and desperation in those men addicted to chasing pussy. The player knows, subconsciously, that most women will not want to actually partner with him (i.e. mate longterm) because he is simply inferior genetic/spiritual material. So he runs cad game, or clown game, or insert-whatever-I-need-to-do-to-get-laid-here game. The player is a man of r-selection mating strategy. By definition, spray-and-pray game is the lowest and least future oriented of sexual mating strategies. It is the game of those who can't play the game... the long game, of actually propagating their DNA further down the line than a quickie in the bushes out of eyesight of the other tribe members.

Sarging. Cold approaching. This is what a desperate man does, including alpha males deluded by the idea of their power over women.

But, but... the alpha, the player, he gets sex from the female. Does it matter how? If she gets pregnant, he is successful in copying his DNA into the future is he not?

True. A one off. A child born to a woman with likely no father around to take care of her or his future DNA offspring.

Women are stupid when it comes to sex. Just like men. We are both responsible for our part of DNA propagation into the future, but a woman is more likely to be tempted/corrupted (see Eve) because she was designed to respond on a sexual level far easier and more willingly than man. A woman is... the gender that must submit is she not? She has to submit to being penetrated. Thus, if a man is persistent enough, Darwin kicks in and despite her rational mind (and DNA) screaming "No, this is a bad idea."... a dude gets lucky and slips it in. That's it. That... is what blasting through LMR is, don't fool yourself it's any different.

LMR is a natural response by a female to a male she should not be having sex with.

Now that I think about it, this also explains the massive increase in false rape charges against men. Women are being sluts and they are reacting badly to this choice, even if the sex was 100% consensual. This is what happens when you practice Game with the sole goal of getting laid in opposition to starting a relationship for the long term. Remember, the key to Game on any level... is to not come across as provider guy. I.e. the guy she would actually choose to mate with for the specific purpose of creating a long term future genetic legacy.

You can get a lot more pussy running Game on a girl, but that pussy is screaming "Stay away from me!" at the same time.

One man feels he needs to hustle and "chase pussy" if he ever hopes to get some. The mantra "He who hesitates, masturbates." says more about the man than the principle espoused.

Another man feels he deserves pussy because he is a Man, capital M, and has what all woman want - a penis. Walking up and saying hello to a pretty birdy is him merely acting on his nature. He is not thinking about what hesitation will lead to. He just wants to say hello to the girl that managed to catch his eye. Period. Think on this deeply.

A man with authentic masculine confidence in himself does not have to chase women.

He only has to choose.

The ladies are already around him in abundance because his masculine nature attracts the feminine to him.

Becoming masculine and a Man, capital M, goes so much deeper than getting pussy.

In fact, getting pussy is actually retarding your progress in becoming more masculine.

And I have proof.

During my last job, I had the chance to work with a sharp, intelligent young guy one year shy of 20. A "pup" as I was once called at that age.

Yet, for all his intelligence, he was doing nothing and going nowhere.

He was working a dead-end job and planned his life around music and his XBOX. No idea at all about education or setting a goal for himself and I asked more than once to try and get him to think about his future.

Now, if you are Red Pill, you will recognize this young guy as being just another low testosterone, underachieving, no-direction loser. On the will and ambition scale, he is, but not for the reasons you think

The reason he has no gumption to get-up-and-go somewhere is BECAUSE he has a girlfriend and gets laid regularly!!!

He was working to pay off his car debt (great) and every chance he got, he drove long distance to see his girlfriend to get laid. In truth, he probably has a few girls that would hook-up with him, I have no doubt. Chalk this up to his skills with a guitar. If you do nothing else with your life, if you can learn to play an instrument, you will be awash in pussy.

And that is where you will stay... throwing your masculinity and life away... in pussy.

This is what happens to many a man who, after drowning in a sea of porn and long one-night-stands with Rosy P, has somehow managed to learn some Game and get him some pussy!!! He even has a girlfriend!!! My, watch this man walk like a giant now on the earth!!! "You pathetic fools, you nice guys, you Blue Pillers who are not getting laid. I am so glad to have finally found the magic Red Pill, Game, and worked hard to unlock the secrets of pussy." How sad he feels for them.

What the young man above does not realize is this; his regular access to pussy has completely stunted his masculine will to grow.

To become something more than just a sexual toy for the female's pleasure and purpose.

Yes, whether she is having sex with you or not, most men are still just tools for the female's use.

"As my Slavic mother always told me when triumphantly scheming behind my father’s back; female cunning surpasses male understanding any day."

Men rule the world, but as long women remain in control of the male mind, I will always believe the true master of the universe is secretly female.

Anna Madsen - Elitedaily.com - How Women Get Men Right Where They Want Them

Can you see now why my focus and repetition on the mindset, the attitude, the belief of capital M in Man is so important?

If you can put the capital M back in your nature, you won't need to worry about frame with women. Frame, and the conflict to impose it on the female, is nothing less than a man who has yet to assert 100% independence of mind from the wiles of the female. If you are a Man for whom no amount of T&A has any effect on... there is no frame to fight for or strive to impose on a woman. You have it. Full and complete authority over yourself as a Man, capital M. She can't fight or steal your 'frame' because there is no crack in it for her to work to her advantage.

There is no doubt in my mind, if I would have had this young man's 'success' with women at his age, I would be doing nothing with my life right now. I would have a 'job', I would have a mortgage, a wife, maybe even an ex-wife, but I would be miserable and not know why.

A man's mid-life crisis is nothing more than his realization that his life has been lived for pussy instead of his dreams for himself.

Never, never marry, my dear fellow; that's my advice to you; don't marry till you have faced the fact that you have done all you are capable of doing, and till you cease to love the woman you have chosen, till you see her plainly, or else you will make a cruel mistake that can never be set right.

"... you talk of Bonaparte, but Bonaparte when he was working his way up, going step by step straight to his aim,

HE WAS FREE;

he had nothing except his aim and he attained it.

But tie yourself up with a woman, and, like a chained convict, you lose all freedom. And all the hope and strength there is in you is only a drag on you, torturing you with regret.

Leo Tolstoy - War & Peace

Even Tolstoy knew and undertstood that a Man chooses the female he will marry.

This is the curse of Game and 'success' with women - catching the dreaded pussy chaser disease - that if you get you some pussy, you have become a Man, capital M.

 Leo Tolstoy's advice on marriage to a young man in War & Peace is just as valid today even with the institution of marriage in complete shambles.

The pursuit of pussy for pussy's sake will turn you into a pussy.

This was the message of warning Prince Andrey was trying to give to young Pierre - beware the masculine destroying charms of the female, for if you do not live life for YOUR dreams, you WILL surely be living it for HERS!!!

This blog will forever be venerating the great writers, great men, to have come before me. The advice of Tolstoy would be lost on young men today. In place of marriage & partnership is Game and the pursuit of pussy, only now, Tolstoy's advice would be misconstrued as meaning to never marry, never partner, with a woman and thus chase pussy forever. This is not what he was saying. What Tolstoy was trying to make clear was this - don't mistake pussy for success in life. For if you do, your purpose for being born, your reason for existing as a man, will never be realized.

To become truly masculine, you must live your life to see your dream for yourself become reality.

To unite dream and day.

Truly original writing and thinking is rare. I am humble enough to realize that even the greats lean heavily on those that have come before them. I am no exception.

Unite Dream & Day is not my concept, but Da Pook's.

If you are not dreaming of your life as a Man in this world, why are you still living!

Let's see what Da Pook had to say on this subject.

VOICE: “You craven dismal-dreaming miscreant! You know you are now getting what you desired: women. So why are you so unhappy?”

ALPHA PLAYBOY: “Oh Voice, most cruel and foul. You are the rudeliest welcome to this world. My answer is, because I haven’t found the right one…”

VOICE: No, you wimpled beef-witted wagtail! You have divided your emotions from yourself, your imagination from reality, your true personality from the universe.

ALPHA PLAYBOY: “But I had to change because I wasn’t getting the women!”

VOICE: “And you failed because by keeping me caged, you limit yourself.”

ALPHA PLAYBOY: “I act only in accordance to what women want.”

VOICE: But women want you to live in your own world, to stop bending over to be spanked (and not in the good way), a willy billy translating into a tampon that every woman uses for her needs (emotional, physical, social, etc.). You are the equivalent of the woman doing whatever to please the men. Yes, the girl that is the smokehouse where every man does place his meat. You are the Magical Tampon where every woman does place in her…”

Gentlemen, the cruel truth of woman is this: men are nothing but tampons to most of them. We are tools, for pleasure or utility, and we are disposable if we no longer serve either purpose.

Unless you become more than a penis they find handy to have around...

You're just a useful idiot to her.

Red Green is hilarious, well, at least North of the 49th. His comedy and the character of Red Green was based entirely upon the truth I just revealed.

The majority of women do not respect men, and especially the man they are with.

Why is this?

For they are not men. They are penises obsessed with pussy that can be manipulated at will, especially the alpha male pussy chasers.

It’s nearly impossible for a man not to drool just by thinking about a pair of breasts, to the point that they’ve banned cleavages from the workplace because it leaves them too distracted to actually do their jobs.

In other words, if a woman wants to distract her man from an uncomfortable issue, she just has to unbutton once (twice for very serious issues) and she should be in the clear in a matter of minutes. Think Kate Moss, though, rather than Ice-T’s wife, Coco.

Anna Madsen - Elitedaily.com - How Women Get Men Right Where They Want Them

But not all men are viewed as such by women.

I am sure you have noticed there are some men who pull women like cats to catnip without a dollar to their name or any status at all except in their own minds.

These men do have the respect of the woman on their arm, and others waiting in line should he cast the current lady aside.

And you know, just know, it has nothing to do with his prowess in bed or the money in his wallet. (But he most likely has a little of both and what he has is just fine with her.)

Who are these men?

The musician who pursues his passion for music because music is who he is, not because he thinks it will get him pussy.

The rock climber who devotes every waking moment of his life to mastering a new cliff face. Not because he thinks a daring and exciting life of outdoor adventure will make him attractive to pussy, but because it is there, a challenge to be conquered.

The programmer who has literally, like in the Matrix, become the code that he programs in and who started up his own company, or secured the apex of his career niche with his employer, because coding is in his very DNA, his blood, not a way to secure provider game to get pussy.

Do you note the theme in the lives of the men I just illustrated?

These are men living their dream for their life. The truth of their reason for existence and purpose on this earth.

The girl, the woman, a female... is secondary, an accessory to what is already an incredible life without her, but more fun, more sexy, more entertaining with her in it.

If you have ever seen a girl with a guy who is clearly not the kind of 'man' that Game says she should want to be with, ask yourself this question.

What does he have that a lot of technical alphas do not?

THE ANSWER IS A DREAM FOR HIS LIFE.

A dream for his life that is all encompassing.

And he is living it.

A dream made manifest in daylight.

A dream life he now invites the feminine element to join, with his permission and by his choice.

What I have noticed about a lot of Game advice is what Da Pook noted as well.

A lot of Game advice and talk of becoming an alpha male is about learning how to imitate great men.

Men who pursued greatness, not chased pussy, because it is greatness that all real men are called forth to pursue.

Man, capital M.

The alpha male/playboy puts on the mask of being a great man in order to fool the female into thinking she has found one and trick her to lift her skirt up, but in the end, they will always, always, be proven the fraud when a truly great man walks into the room. Great men that live their dreams while awake. And when asleep, the keep dreaming about how to live their life better in the future.

They never stop dreaming, and thus, they never stop living.

What could be more attractive to a female than that?

What could be more masculine?

What is your dream for your life?

What are you chasing after?

Reflect on this deeply.

Strength & Honor


POSTCRIPT: As an aside on just how much women know they can manipulate a man with breasts, think deeply on the fact the Elitedaily.com author quoted above, Anna Madsen, has actually made a fine distinction between real power in sexual manipulation based on body/breast type and the female/feminine character of said breasts/woman doing the manipulating. A woman knows there are grades of manipulation that work on a man. The power end of the scale seems to be on the greater degree of the feminine in the female.

Just because a woman displays tits & ass to a man does not mean she can or will be able to successfully manipulate that man. Thus, use of female sexuality for the control of men is not just a matter of display or giving it up (i.e. pussy), but of the character and type of woman (i.e. how feminine) she is. This is why high class girls (ones with brains, the K types) are on a whole other level compared to lower class women who rely solely on physical attributes (r) to manipulate the male.

As cited by Anna as the model of feminine sexuality power/manipulation to pursue...

This is Kate Moss.

This is Coco.

The sexual manipulation of men is a science & art to the female.

And alpha male players think they have the "upper hand". It is to laugh.

Keep chasing that pussy!


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